Tactics / Passive Aggression / this line
What to Say When Someone Says "I'm fine"
SAY THIS
“If something's bothering you, let me know when you're ready to discuss it directly.”
No chasing. No mind-reading.
“I'm fine.” is a classic passive aggression move. What it really means: I want you to chase me and guess what's wrong. The goal of the reply isn't to win an argument — it's to stay calm, stay specific, and put the weight of the line back on the person who said it.
“I'm fine.”
(obviously not fine)
TRANSLATION
I want you to chase me and guess what's wrong.
WHAT TO SAY BACK
“If something's bothering you, let me know when you're ready to discuss it directly.”
WHY IT WORKS
No chasing. No mind-reading.
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