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What to Say When Someone Says "If you don't know, I'm not telling you"

By Skip the Drama · Published 2026-07-18 · Updated 2026-07-18

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“I can't fix what you won't say.”

Mind-reading isn't love.

“If you don't know, I'm not telling you.” is a classic silent treatment move. What it really means: Mind-reading is now the price of peace. The goal of the reply isn't to win an argument — it's to stay calm, stay specific, and put the weight of the line back on the person who said it.

“If you don't know, I'm not telling you.”

(the mind-reading test)

TRANSLATION

Mind-reading is now the price of peace.

WHAT TO SAY BACK

“I can't fix what you won't say.”

WHY IT WORKS

Mind-reading isn't love.

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